


Mindfulness: An introduction
Our mind can be our ally
or our enemy, our enhancer or our detractor, our savior or our assailant. It's our choice. We must use it well if it's to serve us properly, if it's to
bring us well-being; yet, often we don't. The way we can use our mind
"well" is thru mindfulness.
Mindfulness is neither a New Age phenomenon nor a product of the hippie generation. Its origin can be traced back to as
early as the first millennium BC, to the foothills of the Himalayas, when Shakyamuni Buddha, the Buddha of this era &
the founder of Buddhism, attained enlightenment.
Yet, mindfulness is also something that even modern-day academics like Ellen Langer, a Psychology
Professor at Harvard University, has researched & written about. She noted that both
mindfulness & its counterpart, mindlessness, have "the power to change our lives."
In particular, in her book, Mindfulness, she wrote that
mindfulness has been shown to affect cheerfulness, alertness & even lifespan.
Mindfulness
is a counter to mental rigidity, which occurs when you lock yourself into ways of
thinking. Mindfulness releases you from dependence upon habitually-referenced mindsets
& elevates your creative ability. Later, activities are presented to help you to increase your mindfulness.



Mindfulness
isn't concentration
Concentration is when you focus your
mind on one thing, such as when you're removing a splinter from a small child's finger.
Concentration requires willpower
to force the mind to focus on an entity. Without concentration, there can't be mindfulness; however, there's a distinct
difference between them.
Concentration focuses attention; Mindfulness determines upon
what the attention will be focused
& detects when
attention strays..
SATI exerpt from Mindfulness
in Plain English by Venerable Henepola Gunaratana
Mindfulness is the English translation of the
Pali word 'Sati.'



Sati is an activity. What exactly is that?
Well, this is one
of those questions without a precise answer, at least not in words. Words are devised by the symbolic levels of the mind &
they describe those realities with which symbolic thinking deals.
Mindfulness (Sati)
is pre-symbolic.
It's not shackled to logic. Nevertheless, Mindfulness can be experienced - rather easily &
it can be described, as long as you keep in mind that the words are only fingers pointing at the moon.
They're not the thing itself. The actual experience lies beyond the
words & above the symbols.
Mindfulness could be described in completely different terms than will be used here & each description could still be correct.



Mindfulness (Sati) is a subtle process that you're using at this very
moment. The fact that this process lies above & beyond words doesn't make it unreal - quite the reverse.
Mindfulness is the reality which
gives rise to words - the words that follow are simply pale shadows of reality. It's important to understand that everything that follows here is an analogy. It's not going
to make perfect sense. Please don't sit around scratching your head & trying to figure it all out.
In fact, the meditational technique called Vipassana (insight) that
was introduced by the Buddha about 25 centuries ago is a set of mental activities specifically aimed at experiencing a state
of uninterrupted Mindfulness or Sati.
Mindfulness is specificity of awareness so as we can realize the nature
of our mind which is clarity and the function of our mind which is knowing.
Rumi

When you first become aware of something there's a fleeting
instant of pure awareness just before you
conceptualize the thing, before you identify it. That's a stage of Mindfulness (Sati).
Ordinarily, this stage is very short. It's that flashing split second just before you focus your eyes on the thing,
just before you focus your mind on the thing, just before you objectify it, clamp down on it mentally & segregate it from
the rest of existence.
It takes place just before you start thinking about it - before that little 'yak, yak' machine inside your skull says, "Oh, it's a dog." That flowing, soft-focused moment of pure awareness is Mindfulness (Sati).
In that brief flashing mind - moment
you experience a thing as an un-thing.
You experience a softly flowing
moment of pure experience that is interlocked w/the rest of reality, not separate from it.

Mindfulness is very much like what you see w/your peripheral vision as opposed to the hard focus of normal or central
vision. Yet this moment of soft, unfocused, awareness contains a very deep sort of knowing
that's lost as soon as you focus your mind & objectify the object into a thing.
In the process of ordinary perception,
the Mindfulness (Sati) step is so fleeting as to be unobservable. We've developed the habit of squandering our attention on all the remaining steps, focusing on the perception,
cognizing the perception, labeling it & most of all, getting involved in a long string of symbolic thought about it.
That original moment of Mindfulness just gets lost in the
shuffle. It's the purpose of the above mentioned Vipassana (or insight) meditation to train
us to prolong that moment of awareness.

When this Mindfulness (Sati) is prolonged by using proper techniques, you find that this experience is profound & it changes
your whole view of the universe.
This state of perception has to be learned, however,
& it takes regular practice.
Once you learn the technique, you'll find that Mindfulness has a number of interesting
characteristics.



Three Fundamental Activities
There are 3 fundamental activities of Mindfulness (Sati).
We can use these activities as functional definitions of the term:
- Mindfulness reminds us what we're supposed
to be doing
- it sees things as they really are
- it sees the deep nature of all phenomena
Let's examine these definitions in greater detail.
Mindfulness
(Sati) reminds you what you're
supposed to be doing. In meditation, you put your attention on one item. When your mind wanders from this focus, it's Mindfulness that reminds you
that your mind's wandering & what you're supposed to be doing. It's Mindfulness that
brings your mind back to the object of meditation.

All of this occurs instantaneously & w/out internal dialogue. Meditation isn't thinking. Repeated practice in meditation establishes this function as a mental habit which then carries over into the rest of your
life.
You should be paying bare attention to occurrences all the time, day in, day out, whether formally sitting
in meditation or not. This is a very lofty ideal towards which those who meditate may be working for a period of years or
even decades.
Our habit of getting stuck in thought is years old & that habit will hang on in the most tenacious manner. The only way out is to be equally persistent in
the cultivation of constant Mindfulness (Sati).
When Mindfulness is present, you'll notice when you become stuck in
your thought patterns. It's that very noticing which allows you to back out of the thought process & free yourself from it.

Mindfulness
then returns your attention to its proper focus. If you're meditating at that moment, then your focus will be the formal object of meditation. If you're
not in formal meditation, it'll be just a pure application of bare attention itself, just
a pure noticing of whatever comes up w/out getting involved -
"Ah, this comes up... & now this & now this... & now this."
Mindfulness
(Sati) is at one & the same time both bare attention itself & the function of reminding
us to pay bare attention if we've ceased to do so.
Bare attention is noticing. It re-establishes itself simply
by noticing that it's not been present. As soon as you're noticing
that you haven't been noticing, then by definition you're noticing & then again you're back to paying bare attention.
Well, that all sounds very involved, but there's nothing complex about it. It's just
the words. It's just a thing you'll learn to do by feel, the way you play baseball.

Mindfulness
creates its own distinct feeling in consciousness. It has a flavor - a light, clear, energetic flavor. Conscious thought is heavy by comparison, ponderous & picky. But here again, these are just words.
Your own practice will show you the
difference. Then you'll probably come up w/your own words & the words used here will become superfluous. Remember, practice
is the thing.
Mindfulness
(Sati)
sees things as they really are. It adds nothing to perception & it subtracts nothing. It distorts nothing. It's bare attention & just looks at whatever comes up.
Conscious thought loves to paste things over our experience, to load us down with concepts & ideas, to immerse us in a churning vortex
of plans & worries, fears & fantasies. When mindful, you don't play that game. You just notice
exactly what arises in the mind, then you notice the next thing. "Ah, this... & this... & now this." It's really very
simple.

Mindfulness (Sati) sees the true nature of all phenomena. Mindfulness & only Mindfulness can perceive the 3 prime characteristics that Buddhism teaches are the deepest truth of existence.
In Pali these 3 are called:
- Annica (impermanence)
- Dukkha (unsatisfactoriness)
- Anatta (selflessness - the absence of a permanent, unchanging, entity that we call soul or self)
These truths, by the way, aren't presented in Buddhist teaching as dogmas subject to blind faith. The Buddhists feel that these truths are universal & self-evident to anyone who cares to investigate in a proper way.
Mindfulness
is that method of investigation. Mindfulness alone has the power to reveal the deepest level of reality available to human observation. At this level of inspection, one sees the following:
- all conditioned things are inherently transitory
- every worldly thing is, in the end, unsatisfying
- there are really no entities that are unchanging or permanent, only processes

Mindfulness works
like an electron microscope. That is, it operates on so fine a level that one can actually see directly those realities which
are at best theoretical constructs to the conscious thought process.
Mindfulness actually sees the impermanent character of every perception. It sees the transitory & passing nature of
everything that is perceived. It also sees the inherently unsatisfactory nature of all conditioned things.
It sees that there
is no sense grabbing onto any of these passing shows. Peace & happiness just can't be found that way. And finally, Mindfulness sees the inherent selflessness of all phenomena.
It sees the way we have arbitrarily selected a certain bundle of perceptions, chopped them off from the rest of the surging flow of experience & then conceptualized them
as separate, enduring, entities. Mindfulness actually sees these
things. It doesn't think about them, it sees them directly.

When it's fully developed, Mindfulness sees these 3 attributes of existence
directly, instantaneously & w/out the intervening medium of conscious thought. In fact, even the attributes which we just covered are inherently arbitrary. They don't really exist as separate items.
They are purely the result of our struggle to take this fundamentally simple process
called Mindfulness & express it in the cumbersome & inherently unsuitable thought symbols of the conscious level.
Mindfulness is a PROCESS, but it doesn't take place
in steps. It's a wholistic process that occurs as a unit: you notice your own lack of Mindfulness
& that noticing itself is a result of Mindfulness & Mindfulness
is bare attention & bare
attention is noticing things exactly as they're w/out distortion; & the way
they're is Anicca, Dukkha, & Anatta (impermananent, unsatisfactory & self-less).
It all takes place in a flash-bang.
This doesn't mean, however, that you'll
instantly attain liberation (freedom from all human weaknesses) as a result of your first moment of mindfulness.
Learning to integrate this material
into your conscious life is another whole process. And learning to prolong this state of Mindfulness
is still another. They're joyous processes, however & they're well worth the effort.



Madness,
mindfulness & minerals
While reading a chapter in "Insight Meditation," I realized that few of us
are free, even when we live in a "free" country.
Our habits, greed, anger & self-centeredness imprison us as tightly as would a jail cell.
Though this jail cell exists w/in our minds, we all have the key to the cell
door though few realize it:
- that lack
of realization is caused by the delusion that the way things are is how it has to be.
What made me realize that it's not the way it has to be were 3 questions Goldstein asked in the section entitled
"Emotional Bondage: Emotional Freedom" w/regard to anger:
- "How am I getting
caught in the anger?
- "How am I getting
hooked by it?"
- "How am I identifying
with it?"
I read those questions at a time when I harbored considered
anger toward several people for their actions toward me, actions that I considered both cruel & unjustified.
For 4 months, I clung to my anger, an anger so infused into my being that it bordered on madness & to its symptoms: tension & migraines.
They were my close & constant companions until I took the first step to ending their control over me: I increased my calcium supplementation, taking a supplement in the morning in addition to bedtime, & began taking
a magnesium supplement twice a day at the same time as the calcium. That action reduced the pressure I was placing on myself
enough so that when I read Goldstein's 3 questions I could assimilate their meaning in a mindful
way.
I realized I had become my anger. I was using it as a replacement for what I'd lost, but as long as I allowed it to persist, healing wouldn't occur &
anger would continue to wreak havoc upon my being. Worst of all, it was effecting mindlessness..
Since my realization, my anger has subsided. I still need to work w/the 3 questions, but I now realize that my state of near-madness is just another temporary state that I'll experience
during this life.
Fortunately, I've also experienced mindfulness at times &
now know that it's the most effective way there is for regaining & maintaining one's well-being thru the obstacle course
called "life."



Awareness of Thought & Physical Reaction
Inevitably, while practicing mindfulness, your mind will wander. Learning to observe where it
wanders to is also a practice in awareness.
Thoughts are of 2 varieties.
Non-afflicting: Thoughts like "I wonder what's for dinner?" or "Should I watch TV or read a book?" come & go all the time
w/out getting a rise out of the body. They don't matter that much.
Afflicting:
Thoughts like "I wonder why my spouse & I don't get along?" or "I'm scared that my disease is going to kill me" get a definite rise out of the body. They produce an emotional response like fear, guilt, or anger. Because such thoughts draw us out of the present moment, as well as getting stored in the body, they're very powerful.
One of my patients, a young nurse who experienced anxiety attacks, was amazed when she realized that the anxiety didn't spring full-blown from nowhere.
There
were certain thoughts that always preceded her
attacks while others kept them going. When she learned to control her thoughts, her anxiety disappeared.
Going Beyond the Mind: The
Witness
Try this experiment before reading further. Since the mind speaks in words,
for the next minute become the witness, the listener of your mind. Close your eyes, breathe a sigh of relief, take 3 abdominal breaths & listen to your mind for one minute.
What happened? You probably had one of 2 experiences. Either you watched your
thoughts go by or strangely, there were no thoughts at all. My patients are often amazed that when they watch the mind closely, it tends to
stop or slow down.
Usually the experience of witnessing the mind - whether the mind falls silent or keeps on running - is one of peacefulness. You don't stop existing if the mind becomes quiet. You're still aware of your own existence & your own consciousness & that awareness is quite peaceful. Try the experiment again for a minute.
Meditation develops the ability to become aware of a completely nonjudgmental part of the mind, that of the Witness. The Witness
is the part of your mind that watches - that's aware of thinking. Since the Witness is beyond the ego, it isn't caught up in judging & is thus content in any situation.
Another name
for the Witness is the Self, or the unconditioned mind. It's the same in everyone
because it's not conditional on what our experiences have been. It exists previous to experience & the arising
of the different parts of the mind. In many different psychologies & philosophies, the ego is called the self with a small
"s" because it represents our own personal history, complete with
all the limitations of our attitudes & fears. The Self w/a big S represents completely unlimited potential.
Do not pursue the past. Do not lose
yourself in the future. The past no longer is. The future has not yet come. Looking deeply at life as it is. In
the very here and now, the practitioner dwells in stability and freedom. We must be diligent today. To wait until tomorrow
is too late. Death comes unexpectedly. How can we bargain with it? The sage calls a person who knows how to dwell
in mindfulness night and day, 'one who knows the better way to live alone.'
Bhaddekaratta Sutta
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Living in the Present Moment - Importance vs. Urgency
It sounds like one of those New Age clichés. Of course we're living in the
present moment. When else would we be living? In truth, many of us live 'everywhen' except the present moment.
We spend a lot of time dwelling on the past & worrying about the future.
This concept is sometimes referred
to as
"mindfulness."
It originated as a Buddhist concept, but it's now incorporated into many stress management programs. If we live our lives mindfully we'll get more out of life.
A related concept is the
distinction between importance &
urgency. We often let life slip away by confusing these two concepts.
Important tasks are those which we place value on. Urgent tasks are those which someone tells us to do
right away. While we're busy with a task with an urgent deadline we may be missing a much more important task.
Just last night I missed a moment. My daughter Allison asked me if I'd help
her study for her Biology test. I was busy updating this site. I told her that I would help her after I finished & she
replied "Never mind."
I offered to help 20 minutes later & she replied that she could do it
herself. Allison turns 18 next month. Did I miss my last opportunity to help her study?
Updating this site seemed urgent. I try to do it the same time every week.
But Allison is
so much more important! I got the site updated early but I missed
an opportunity to interact w/Allison.
I had already resolved to spend more time w/her this last year before college
& I blew it.
I
need to be careful though. The other way to avoid the present is to dwell on the past. I need to learn from it & then let it go. I'll accomplish nothing by beating myself up over my
daughter.
I need more work on enjoying the present moment. I need to grab the moments that I have with important people in my life
- my family especially.
All we really have is
this moment. When it's gone we'll never get it back.
What's important in your life?
Is that where
you're spending your time & energy?
A graphical view of the meaning of mindfulness
Meta-aware means that you're not just doing something but that you're also aware of what you're doing. You're not lost in the activity.
Not distracted means
just that. Your mind isn't getting bogged down in any of the thoughts, sensations & stimuli constantly vying
for your attention.
Non-judgmental means that you're a neutral observer to your experiences, neither
forming attachments nor taking sides.
Mindfulness Development
Activity #1
Objective: To allow you to experience how your mind works as you seek to concentrate on a task.
Materials needed: blank paper, pencil
Steps
1. Place the hand that you don't use to write on a flat surface, palm down.
2.
Looking only at your non-writing hand & not at the paper, try to draw your non-writing hand on the paper.
In doing this, a helpful
technique is to focus on the next segment of your hand that you intend to draw, lock that segment into memory & then draw
from memory.
The alternative technique,
drawing at the same time you're observing your hand, is more difficult to do.
The purpose of this activity
isn't on how well you can draw your hand, but rather on what goes on within you as you do it.
3. If you catch yourself
glancing at your drawing, stop drawing, reposition your pencil at the point where you had begun the latest attempt & start
again with direction #1.
4. When done, comment on your experience.
- What interfered with your progress?
- What hastened it?
If
you did this exercise again, what would you do differently?
“If we are mindful, then a thought is just a thought. A feeling is just a
feeling, a sound is just a sound, rather than these triggering a series of desires and aversions and delusions.”
Sayadaw U Pandita
Does mindfulness diminish spontaneity?
In one of my favorite books, Insight Meditation: The Practice of Freedom,
Joseph Goldstein addressed the relationship between mindfulness &
spontaneity.
Goldstein wrote that the kind of spontaneity that we typically experience
isn't really spontaneity, but only another example of our indebtedness to our past, our conditioning, our habits.
It's responding "without reflection," a "mechanical behavior" comparable to
"sleepwalking."
In contrast, true spontaneity occurs when we follow the rhythm of our life,
the pureness of our being, the ebb & flow of our essence.
It's in this regard, Goldstein stated, that "mindfulness
is actually the key to spontaneity" & "the vehicle thru which we can open to the continuous, spontaneous arising & passing of all phenomena."
The image below visualizes the fact that it's our conditioning & not our mindfulness that diminishes our spontaneity.
Mindfulness & the Discovery of the Self
Anyone
who has ever sat at home, healthy, well fed, surrounded by loved ones, & suffering from intense anxiety will
readily agree that
peace of mind is the necessary condition for happiness. But how can we possibly learn to have peace of mind when the mind is by nature restless, projecting its wants & fears endlessly into the past & the future?
Think about your favorite activity for a moment. When you're really enjoying
something you like, how do you feel? As you listen to your favorite music with full attention, other thoughts & desires fade away. You're simply in the moment. There's contentment - peace.
Inevitably, of course, your mind kicks back in. How can you sit &
listen to music? You need to clean the house, or think about your job, or get something to eat or worry about finances, or make a phone call, or any of a thousand things. No longer in the moment, you're off & running.
If you could train your mind to let go of other desires, returning to them when the actual moment has come to do the bills & make the phone call, you'd be
able to experience peace of mind. The road to peace of mind is through a practice called mindfulness. It's opposite, the state
in which the mind is in many places at once, is called mindlessness.
Mindfulness: Meditation in Action
Mindfulness is
meditation in action & involves a "be here now" approach that allows life to unfold without the limitation of prejudgment. It means being open to an awareness of the moment as it is & to what the moment could hold. It's a relaxed state of attentiveness to both the inner world of thoughts & feelings & the outer world of actions & perceptions.
Mindfulness means really being present with the food when eating, enjoying it rather than thinking about other things. It means openness to the experience of motion when taking a walk & to the sights, sounds & smells around you.
Mindfulness
requires a change in attitude. The
joy isn't in finishing an activity - the joy is in doing it. Those of you who are Type A's will find that this is completely foreign
to your usual way of perceiving things.
Remember that Type A's tend to engage in polyphasic behaviors - they try to do several things simultaneously. The reality
of thinking & doing, however, is that we can only think or do one thing at a time. The mind can dart back & forth between several things, but it can hold only one thing in full focus. Polyphasic thinking, therefore, actually wastes time. It also creates enormous stress.
Opening to the Moment
You can train yourself to be mindful by cultivating awareness of where your mind is & then making a choice about where you want it to be. i.e., if you need the time walking to the bus stop to plan the day, then you've made a conscious choice.
Try to plan without falling into rumination that leads to nothing but tension.
If you don't need to plan, then just be. Center on your breathing, let out a sigh of relief, & then let yourself experience the rhythm of breathing & walking. After a while you'll fall into a comfortable stride, perhaps 2 steps to the in-breath & 2 steps to the out -breath, or any cadence that suits you.
This can be the focus - the anchor - that holds your mind still
as you open up your attention to what is around you - the trees, the clouds, the people - without judging. Just enjoy the moment. Practice abdominal breathing several times daily. Put up little signs where you'll see them as reminders.
Even-Mindedness: Letting the Judge Rest
John was caught in the most familiar bind of them all - wishing for life to be different. That is the essence of suffering. The only
way to derail that suffering is to let go of desires - the wants & fears that prevent us from living in the present.
Desiring things we don't have - the "if onlys"- &
desiring to avoid the things we don't want - the "what ifs"- are the ego's main preoccupation. Desires are always the cause of suffering - of falling out of the present into the ego's ruminations.
How many times
has your mind told you that you could be happy if you lost 10 pounds? made more money? had your health? Then, even if these things come to pass, you
just move on to the next set of conditions for happiness. The conditions are like the proverbial carrot that dangles in front of the donkey. You never
reach them..
Happiness can occur only at the moment that desires cease. At that time the mind is still. It's not thinking, not wanting or fearing; it's totally absorbed & attentive. Can you remember the experience of being really thirsty on a hot summer's day & the contentment of taking
a drink?
Every time the mind is completely absorbed - perfectly mindful - it grows still & you automatically experience the background
of unconditioned consciousness - the Self - that is always there but is usually hidden behind the ripples of the mind.
Because gratification of a desire leads to the temporary stilling of the mind & the experience of the peaceful, Joysful Self it's no wonder that we get hooked on thinking that happiness comes from the
satisfaction of desires. This is the meaning of the old adage, "Joy is not in things, it is in us."
Although getting something we want or avoiding something we don't can give us peace briefly, it never lasts. The mind is like a junkie - on the prowl for its next hit of peacefulness by looking to satisfy a desire. Between satisfactions, the experience is
generally unpleasant. True peacefulness comes from abandoning the illusion that satisfying desires brings pleasure. It is called evenhandedness.
In that state, you
regard every moment as an opportunity to live fully, to be aware. Instead of doing the dishes with the attitude that life is on hold until the unpleasant chore is over, you can choose to do the dishes mindfully,
observing the sensations of the water, the bubbles, the feel of the plates.
In the state of mindful observation, there are no more judgments about pleasant or unpleasant. The mind grows still & you can feel the contentment of the Self.
Finding peace of mind presents
us once again with the challenge to let go. Developing the capacity of taking a breath & backing up into the position of the Witness - the observing Self - is the fastest mode for learning to be mindful. Breathing while noticing that you're
experiencing anger is mindfulness.
Being so stuck in the experience of anger that you're overcome by it is suffering. The highest ideal of self-understanding comes when a person's ego
has retired to the extent that praise
& blame are treated equally.
There's no puffing up if things go well & no shriveling away if things go poorly.
This is surely a high goal, so it's helpful to remember Einstein's words:
"Nobody is able to achieve this completely but the striving for such achievement is in itself a part of the liberation & a foundation for inner security. "
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Tips for Living Mindfully
1. Continue
watching your mind. Identify the kinds of desires, the "if only's" that separate you from being happy now, & the "what if's" that could deprive you of happiness later. You may find that your ego revolves around a few repetitive concerns.
Write these down. When they occur, congratulate
yourself for becoming aware of them. Practice using your breathing as a reminder to let them go. Sometimes it helps to write your anxieties down on a pad so that you can take appropriate action on them at a time that you set aside for that purpose.
There's no point worrying about cleaning
the house or writing a report or having a conversation before it happens. Do things as a matter of conscious choice, chipping
away at unconscious conditioning.
2. Choose
at least one activity each day to carry out mindfully - with your full attention, like a meditation. If you're chopping vegetables, chop vegetables. Absorb yourself in the colors, the textures, the motions. If you're drying off after a shower, just dry yourself. It feels great. You'll
be amazed at how different a plum tastes when you're mindful.
Richard Alpert, the Harvard
psychologist who spent years studying consciousness, sums up mindfulness in
the message:
"Be here now." Put up a few signs around
the house as reminders. The practice is easy; it's remembering to do it that's hard.
3.
Don't let your ego bully you & scare you off. Old patterns are hard to change & usually, as soon as you try, they seem to get stronger in response. This is natural. Many people
think they're worse off than before when they start to notice themselves.
You're no worse off; you have simply realized what goes on inside.
Awareness is the first step to making new choices. It's worth
the temporary discomfort to get to know yourself.
4. Use mindfulness to cope with pain & anxiety. If you feel anxious feelings arising inside, try to witness them. Instead of getting stuck in judging, be the observer. By not engaging the mind in battle, by watching & letting go, it'll soon become quiet.
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